Archive | March 11, 2015

Solomon: The Decisive Leader

Solomon was the son born to David by Bathsheba. He became king of Israel after David. He was a decisive leader and this is one quality that caused him to be established and distinguished.
What does it mean to be decisive? The word decisive according to an online dictionary means settling an issue or producing a definite result. It also means having or showing the ability to make decisions quickly and effectively. This quality is apparent in Solomon as a leader and a few cases which will be studied here help to establish this fact.

The Bible says; “Then came there two women, that were harlots, unto the king, and stood before him. And the one woman said, O my lord, I and this woman dwell in one house; and I was delivered of a child with her in the house. And it came to pass the third day after that I was delivered, that this woman was delivered also: and we were together; there was no stranger with us in the house, save we two in the house. And this woman’s child died in the night; because she overlaid it. And she arose at midnight, and took my son from beside me, while thine handmaid slept, and laid it in her bosom, and laid her dead child in my bosom. And when I rose in the morning to give my child suck, behold, it was dead: but when I had considered it in the morning, behold, it was not my son, which I did bear. And the other woman said, Nay; but the living is my son, and the dead is thy son. And this said, No; but the dead is thy son, and the living is my son. Thus they spake before the king. Then said the king, The one saith, This is my son that liveth, and thy son is the dead: and the other saith, Nay; but thy son is the dead, and my son is the living. And the king said, Bring me a sword. And they brought a sword before the king. And the king said, Divide the living child in two, and give half to the one, and half to the other. Then spake the woman whose the living child was unto the king, for her bowels yearned upon her son, and she said, O my lord, give her the living child, and in no wise slay it. But the other said, Let it be neither mine nor thine, but divide it. Then the king answered and said, Give her the living child, and in no wise slay it: she is the mother thereof.” (1 Kings 3:16-27)

In the above passage of scripture, Solomon took a decision quickly and effectively. We know it was quick because he neither hesitated nor asked the women to go and return at a later date to give him time to decide on what should be done. No, he instantly called for a sword. We also know that his decision was effective because it produced the desired result. The purpose for his decision was to determine the mother of the child and that was achieved.

Then there were very important decisions which Solomon had to make with regards to his throne and ensuring it was established. Such decisions had to do with his half-brother, Adonijah, who had an eye on the throne and had already proclaimed himself king before Solomon was anointed. Then there was Joab, who had been the captain of David’s army; he was also a threat as he had openly supported Adonijah’s ambition to be king. Abiathar the priest was also a threat as he had, like Joab, supported Adonijah. Finally, there was Shimei who had stoned David when he fled from Absalom. Shimei was also a threat as his words on the day he stoned David revealed that he wanted the throne to return to Saul’s family. The Bible passages below show how Solomon handled all four men. One more time, we are exposed to his decisive nature.

“And Adonijah the son of Haggith came to Bathsheba the mother of Solomon. And she said, Comest thou peaceably? And he said, Peaceably. He said moreover, I have somewhat to say unto thee. And she said, Say on. And he said, Thou knowest that the kingdom was mine, and that all Israel set their faces on me, that I should reign: howbeit the kingdom is turned about, and is become my brother’s: for it was his from the Lord. And now I ask one petition of thee, deny me not. And she said unto him, Say on. And he said, Speak, I pray thee, unto Solomon the king, (for he will not say thee nay,) that he give me Abishag the Shunammite to wife. And Bathsheba said, Well; I will speak for thee unto the king. Bathsheba therefore went unto king Solomon, to speak unto him for Adonijah. And the king rose up to meet her, and bowed himself unto her, and sat down on his throne, and caused a seat to be set for the king’s mother; and she sat on his right hand. Then she said, I desire one small petition of thee; I pray thee, say me not nay. And the king said unto her, Ask on, my mother: for I will not say thee nay. And she said, Let Abishag the Shunammite be given to Adonijah thy brother to wife. And King Solomon answered and said unto his mother, And why dost thou ask Abishag the Shunammite for Adonijah? ask for him the kingdom also; for he is mine elder brother; even for him, and for Abiathar the priest, and for Joab the son of Zeruiah. Then king Solomon sware by the Lord, saying, God do so to me, and more also, if Adonijah have not spoken this word against his own life. Now therefore, as the Lord liveth, which hath established me, and set me on the throne of David my father, and who hath made me an house, as he promised, Adonijah shall be put to death this day. And king Solomon sent by the hand of Benaiah the son of Jehoiada; and he fell upon him that he died.” (1 Kings 2:13-25)

“And unto Abiathar the priest said the king, Get thee to Anathoth, unto thine own fields; for thou art worthy of death: but I will not at this time put thee to death, because thou barest the ark of the Lord God before David my father, and because thou hast been afflicted in all wherein my father was afflicted. So Solomon thrust out Abiathar from being priest unto the Lord; that he might fulfil the word of the Lord, which he spake concerning the house of Eli in Shiloh.” (1 Kings 2:26-27)

“Then tidings came to Joab: for Joab had turned after Adonijah, though he turned not after Absalom. And Joab fled unto the tabernacle of the Lord, and caught hold on the horns of the altar. And it was told King Solomon that Joab was fled unto the tabernacle of the Lord; and, behold, he is by the altar. Then Solomon sent Benaiah the son of Jehoiada, saying, Go, fall upon him.” (1 Kings 2:28-29)

“And the king sent and called for Shimei, and said unto him, Build thee an house in Jerusalem, and dwell there, and go not forth thence any whither. For it shall be, that on the day thou goest out, and passest over the brook Kidron, thou shalt know for certain that thou shalt surely die: thy blood shall be upon thine own head. And Shimei said unto the king, The saying is good: as my lord the king hath said, so will thy servant do. And Shimei dwelt in Jerusalem many days. And it came to pass at the end of three years, that two of the servants of Shimei ran away unto Achish son of Maachah king of Gath. And they told Shimei, saying, Behold, thy servants be in Gath. And Shimei arose, and saddled his ass, and went to Gath to Achish to seek his servants: and Shimei went, and brought his servants from Gath. And it was told Solomon that Shimei had gone from Jerusalem to Gath, and was come again. And the king sent and called for Shimei, and said unto him, Did I not make thee to swear by the Lord, and protested unto thee, saying, Know for a certain, on the day thou goest out, and walkest abroad any whither, that thou shalt surely die? and thou saidst unto me, The word that I have heard is good. Why then hast thou not kept the oath of the Lord, and the commandment that I have charged thee with? The king said moreover to Shimei, Thou knowest all the wickedness which thine heart is privy to, that thou didst to David my father: therefore the Lord shall return thy wickedness upon thine own head; And king Solomon shall be blessed, and the throne of David shall be established before the Lord for ever. So the king commanded Benaiah the son of Jehoiada; which went out, and fell upon him, that he died. And the kingdom was established in the hand of Solomon.” (1 Kings 2:36-46)
We know for certain that Solomon’s decision in all the passages above was quick. So the question remains, was it effective? The answer is found in the words of Solomon. He said; “But now the Lord my God hath given me rest on every side, so that there is neither adversary nor evil occurent.” This statement is a clear indication that his decisions were not only quick but effective. Without any doubt he was a decisive leader.

Leadership Lessons from the Ants

Leadership Lessons from the Ants
The ants appear to be a small and insignificant part of nature but the reality is that although they are small they are in no way insignificant as they possess some very fine leadership qualities. Every leader or aspiring leader in any field of endeavour has something to learn from these creatures. The Bible mentions them in the book of Proverbs which happens to be the book of wisdom. This is not surprising, as they are, without any doubt, creatures of wisdom.
In Proverbs 30:25, the Bible says; “The ants are a people not strong, yet they prepare their meat in the summer.” And in Proverbs 6:6-8, it says; “Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise: Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler, Provideth her meat in the summer, and gathereth her food in the harvest.”
The Leadership Lessons from the Ants are as follows;
1. Physical strength is not necessarily a requirement for leadership. The ants are not strong and the Bible acknowledges this. However a lack of strength does not stop them from reaching their goals.
2. Planning and preparation will aid a leader in achieving his goals more than physical strength ever will. What the ants lack in physical strength, they make up for in planning and preparation.
3. Leaders are initiators. John C. Maxwell has said, “A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way and shows the way.” This is true of the ants; they have no leader because they require no leader. They know the way, they go the way and definitely they show the way to all who care to learn from them. These creatures are leaders, they are self-starters, and they are initiators. No one needs to point them in the right direction or monitor them to ensure they go there. They are able to do this all by themselves. This is without doubt the characteristic of a leader.
4. Leaders do not require motivation to do what they know is important and required. They are self-motivated. These creatures do not need a leader to motivate them to get the job done; they motivate themselves.
5. Leaders understand times and seasons. They know what is required of them in each season and they rise to the task. These creatures understand that they cannot work in every season, however in the seasons that they can work; they work with all their might and get the job done.
6. Leaders do not make excuses for or focus on their handicap rather they look for ways to make their handicap work for them. The ants are small and definitely not strong but this handicap does not stop them from achieving their goals. They are naturally at a disadvantage because of their size but this does not hinder them. The sluggard has been asked to learn from the ants. Why? Because the sluggard will not go out to work for fear that a lion will slay him but the ant goes out to work despite the fact that it could easily be trampled under feet.
7. Leaders do not worry about what they cannot change; they change what they can and learn to live with what they can’t change. The ants are small and have no strength; this is how they were created. They cannot change it, and so in wisdom they have accepted this and learnt to live with it and still take the lead. The good news is, so can you!

Leadership Lessons Daily: Day 70

Scripture Passage: Numbers 12:1-10
Leaders Need Prayers
Moses was a great man but like many leaders, he was far from perfect. Miriam and Aaron, like many followers, took it upon themselves to point out his error in marrying an Ethiopian woman. They spoke to one another about their leader’s fault but never spoke to God, the one who could do make it right. Apostle Paul said in 1 Timothy 2:2, “First of all, then, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men, for kings and all who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity.”
The lesson is this; because leaders are humans and prone to errors, they need our prayers. A wise person understands that a prayer for his leader is a prayer for himself as a leader’s wrong choice(s) may have a devastating effect on his life and destiny.
Prayer: Father, help me to pray for my leaders that as a leader I may enjoy the same grace.